Nigerian man, Chidozie Ekeji, who cheated three months after wedding is seeking advice on what to do because his wife is taking revenge on him by using her ex-boyfriend to frustrate him.
In a post on a Facebook group on Sunday, 9 July, Mr. Ekeji, claimed he had begged her and cried when he ‘broke the marriage vows’ yet she is still frustrating him with her ex, saying she is no longer interested in the marriage.
“Why did she frustrate me with her boyfriend…I will not beg her…I have begged her when I did. If she says she don’t want me, I will go marry another lady who wants me,” he added.
See screenshots from his posts below:
The post has garnered reactions from netizens who have criticized the couple.
A user said: “A vow can be broken in 1 week if both parties have been DATING before MARRIAGE… If you guys have been having sex already, the honeymoon is not suppose to last long anyways. Highest, 1 week, and the whole LOVE will clear from your eyes and you are back to reality… Have you sorted out the outstanding bills from the marriage ceremonies ??? DO YOU SEE the current price of $1-N800…..
“If you were telling yourself the truth, you should have continued the DATING or remained single because this not the best season to be MARRIAGE……….. Women have it so easy because MEN must provide for the family and as result we are exposed to all these garden tools out here….These single women have refused to close their legs to married men so don’t blame us while we are out here fighting to provide for our women…..We didn’t kill nobody. it was just an honest mistake “
Another user commented: “When a woman says it is over in a relationship especially one that has escalated to marriage and the man having tried to plead without success it is best to let her go if not that is an unhealing wound the man will be nursing the rest of his life as long as he is still with her…what with some men readily available to be used by married women, that her ex-boyfriend need to be dealt with to serve as deterrent to others, trust me by hook or by crook, I don’t take shit from nobody either will I serve one”
One user on his part said the hubby should return his wife back.
“Better return her where u bought her from…she is already malfunctioning… fridge warranty come better pass am.”
“Both of you never ready for Marriage ooo make una rest. Marriage ⚭ is not by force oh,” a netizen reacted.