LAGOS, Nigeria(VOICE OF NAIJA)- Popular Nigerian talent manager Ubi Franklin has shared his views on why many men hesitate to enter court marriages, clearing up common legal misconceptions about the equal sharing of properties after divorce and gift-giving.
In a recent post on X, Franklin pointed to a widespread belief that discourages men from legal unions.
He stated that many are of the opinion that if a marriage ends, all property will automatically be divided equally between partners.
Contrary to the common belief, Franklin explained that this idea is not accurate under the law.
He noted that even in traditional or customary marriages, courts can still award financial support if certain conditions are met.
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“Many men are scared of ‘Court Marriage’ because they have this erroneous fixation that in the event of divorce, property will be shared 50 – 50 ( not legally true). Even in customary marriages, when one of the spouses (whether male or female) meets the conditions for alimony (money), the Court will grant it,” he said.
Furthermore, the talent manager highlighted another concern that affects how people approach relationships, gift-giving.
He stated that once a gift is given to a partner, it usually cannot be taken back after a breakup unless there were clear terms attached from the start.
“Secondly, if you give your spouse/girlfriend/ husband, or boyfriend a gift, you cannot recover it in the event of separation, unless it is accompanied by certain conditions,” Franklin added.
For those who wished to collect their gifts back, he advised that such items be bought in their own names or be given with clearly stated conditions of refund, if the relationship ends.
“Sometimes buy the gift in your own name or attach conditions to it”, he advised, highlighting the importance of understanding marriage laws, especially for couples making long-term commitments.
